Straight Talk - Women Talk

I feel the need to say something to all women in the house & beyond. And for the men well I shall say it and whether it offends you or not I shall say it.

I truly and deeply feel men have continuously gone free because women allowed it to be a norm and allowed things to happen unfairly as they do. Forgive me for what I am about to say because I intend to use biological terms of the process and some might think it's too raw. 

The process of baby making involves sperms swimming and meeting an egg. The sperm that is successful to fertilise an egg is a conqueror because it's able to come to life. This is unlike the others that leave the body as waste. In case you have forgotten your biology the sperm comes from the man and the egg comes from the woman. 

Just so we are clear when a man and woman have sexual relations and sperms are released inside a woman's reproductive organ, it's not guaranteed that pregnancy occurs. It's all a God given act and blessing for conception to occur. In addition even the entire journey of pregnancy is an act of God, many conceive but not all carry the baby to term. In addition when the child is born like any human being continues to live through God's grace. That is to say a child is an act of God. Parents have a responsibility from God to take care of the children they make. 

That said it's clear for us to see that without a sperm the egg can't transform into a baby. The man is a key party in all this. If his sperms are weak , conception can't happen. It's the sperms that compete not the eggs. Oh well let me be fair here the quality of the egg determines if conception takes place. So it's up-to the producers to know that where coalition happens , they both have an equal responsibility to ensure the by product stands on its own. 

Ladies let us stop this nonsense of oh the woman opened her legs🙄 , didn't the man close the gap 🤔🤔🤷. She could have opened to let in fresh air but I guess the man decided to offer more. In the story of creation, man was placed to rule the woman. To have dominion over her. That is to mean if women are not closing their legs it's because men have led them to that line. They are the leaders remember. They are the ones to show the women what to do. 

Let's go further into the issue of married men versus single men who impregnate a woman. Both of these men need to understand that whenever they ejaculate into a woman's reproductive organ there is a likelihood of being called father. If they don't want to be a father, let them keep the sperms within themselves or ejaculate inside a woman they are comfortable raising their baby with. It's not the woman's entire fault here. It's actually the production of the right sperm & egg from the producers to blame here. This thing ati oh the lady trapped the man and she knew he was married, didn't that man know that was the wrong place to ejaculate. As a married woman you should not even defend that man, he disrespected you. To add salt to it all, he cares nothing about his wife's health. That is why he runs after every skirt he sees and can't zip up while he's very well aware of the diseases he could bring to his wife. Its no wonder cervical cancer is on the rise, because we are entertaining these men to dig every shamba and bring all pests to us, their wives. 

Oh and if any man thinks a woman is asking for too much child support, perhaps it's time for the man to be putting it in writing how much their sperms are worth and in writing before intercourse . This will be so that the ladies know if they get pregnant what to expect. I mean who would want to lay with a man knowing he values his sperms a price that can't even allow you to go to a public toilet.

As I conclude let the women remember they are mothers and some are raising boys. These boys will soon be men and shall produce active sperms. Mothers to boys need to raise them responsibly. Help them understand that any child they sire they should ensure they have the ability and are ready to provide for that child. Otherwise let them zip up. 

Lastly , 😂😂 women lets not see each other as enemies. I wish women would see how men defend each other. Why is it that women fight each other more? It's no wonder women are the majority of the population but till now very few countries have elected a woman as president. Take  our dear county Kenya for example,  getting a third representation as women in power is so difficult because unfortunately we fight each other than support each other. 

Let us all see the bigger picture.