When a lady is told she is 🤰 her reaction towards the pregnancy really matters. If she's disappointed about it or pretends to be happy and deep down she sad, there begins the journey of rejection. When a man finds out that he impregnated a lady and decides to flee , there begins the journey of rejection. Once the baby is born the reactions towards that baby especially negative could begin or continue the journey of rejection. When the child joins the society and is rejected by comments such as dirty child, rough , rude there continues or starts the journey of childhood Rejection. The people around a child when he or she is growing up can bring feelings of rejection. There are children that experience childhood rejection because of their skin colour, person they are named after and even school performance.
It's not strange to hear a relatives treating children born of their relative differently because they are named the side of their in-laws. Or a child being made to feel rejected because while all children are light skinned, he or she is dark skinned. These are the children that once old enough and making their own money would go for bleaching products.
It's sad that as a society we don't realize that our actions towards any child that we come across whether we gave birth to it or not may bring upon rejection. The effects of child hood rejection is we create troublesome persons in the society as they do all they can to fit in and be accepted. We are responsible for persons that take up destructive careers while grown up like thieves, murderers and even abusive partners.
Parents needs to know their attitude towards a pregnancy to child birth and raising a child is responsible for the way the child grows up. As a parent if you see a rebellious child ,start analysing yourself. Ask yourself have you ever rejected the child? The universe has a way of bringing all we conceptualise in the mind to reality. So what is it we need to do?
As a parent it's important to pray against the spirit of rejection against your children. As a society we need to seek forgiveness for rejecting any child we have come across. Fail to do this and the next person to mug you or your loved ones could be that child you neglected. The next child to commit suicide or person to commit suicide could be that child you rejected. Childhood rejection has and will continue to have devastating effects if we don't take the initiative to stop it.
If as an individual you are struggling with certain things it's time to deeply look into your childhood. Could be you faced some form of rejection as a child and it's eating into the person you are today. If you can't find it pray to cancel the spirit of rejection to free yourself from the jail that could be keeping you from progressing or being a better person.
Have a fulfilling day free of any form of rejection.
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