Last Seen and Double Ticks Proof

For many of us whats app came as a blessing as it made communication cheaper and faster. For others however it has been the cause of many constant fights with those that we communicate with. One particular reason is because of the "last seen on, ability. I particularly would get irritated when I write someone a message and they don't respond and when I check the last seen it shows they saw my message and chose not to reply. They actually went ahead to introduce blue ticks to show someone actually read the message and decided not to reply.

You can call me a petty person but well it would bother me and to some point draw me to conclude I am a bother or the persons concerned is being totally disrespectful. There would be times I would bring it up and there would be times I would suffer in silence. Time came and I thought I deactivate my whats app account completely. But then it wasn't everybody that had annoyed me, so deactivating wasn't an option. And there it was a solution right there, Get rid of the last seen on my whats app. That way I don't get to see when someone last came on line and supposedly ignored my chat. I am now in total peace. Oh well and with the introduction of the blue ticks, I have learnt to tolerate people with their rude behaviour.

So lets talk real life. Many are the times we come across people who constantly annoy us. Oh well and for those that perhaps share houses, the room-mate does things that piss us off. Truth be its because we choose to focus on the thing that they do wrong. Or at times have something to constantly remind us we need to pick a fight. What I am saying to us is that if we can find a way to rid our self of the constant thing that prompts us to want to pick a fight lets not hesitate. Oh well and lets face it there will be times when we shall just have to "fold our tails" and realise that all animals were once wild animals and there are those that are just meant to stay in the wild and not become domesticated. Simply put there are those of us that will never change no matter how much we want or need them to change. If you need to experience change; work on your personal change and the benefits will be quicker and more fulfilling. 

Peace has never been gotten from others it has to come from ourselves. Its an everyday journey that will require us to make continuous adjustments in order to fit.