The trouser doesn't fit

 

Sometimes back I decided to try out a trouser I wanted to wear the following day to work. I had gotten a new top and needed to find a matching skirt or trouser to go match it. When I wore the trouser and tried zipping it ,it couldn't. That automatically confirmed my horizontal growth. It was time to see my tailor or hit the gym or dancing class.

Today morning, when I tried the same trouser (it fits well now), I reflected on the events of the past. I thought of our expansion in life. We are not the person we were many years back. Whatever we feed on each day expands us in the positive or negative. If we feed on negative thoughts we expand backwards with impossibility in our dreams. If we feed on positive thoughts we expand forward with possibilities in our dreams. 

At the same time I also reflected on being able to return to our original self. Though we may lose our original size and dreams perhaps due to wrong mentality or bad company, its never too late to find ourselves again. It may take time and perhaps we will have tough choices and incur pain along the way but truth is its possible to regain lost glory, vision or a relationship. Where there is commitment to make it work and to learn from past mistakes, nothing is impossible.

In what direction are you expanding? Can you deal with the effects of the direction you are expanding? What will you do about your expansion? What are you willing to do to regain yourself and all that you may have lost in the past that wasn't worth losing?

Think about it my friend.