10 THINGS MEN AND WOMEN SHOULDN'T FAIL TO DISCUSS AND AGREE BEFORE MARRIAGE.

1.  SEX.
While some get married virgins majority don't. Ensure you are comfortable enough to a point that you can share your sexual fantasies and preferences. Discuss the things you can do to spice up your bedroom matters. If you adventurous and like to experiment ensure your partner knows. It's sad to be in a union where you can't satisfy each other sexually. Hence the reason for many infidelity.

2.FINANCES
Many ignore this and that is when you will hear one spouse complaining their partner is extravagant. How would someone know the demands that can wait when they don't know how much their partner earns? How can two people share their bodies , have children but can't talk about money.

3. IN-LAWS
Like it or not they can't be ignored and somehow they will meddle directly and in directly.I hear people say my partner takes all their money to their family or my partner doesn't want me to support my family. Agree on how to balance. For example set money in your budget and divide equally to help in-law calls.

4. RELIGION
This comes if you come from different religions or denominations. The children have to he brought up in a certain beliefs. This moulds your children.

5 WHERE TO LIVE
Coming from different backgrounds the likelihood is that each has had an experience and there would be places that may offer discomfort. By talking it's easy to find balance.

6. DREAMS AND ASPIRATIONS
Love isn't enough. A whole complete companion is what one needs. By understanding your partners goals and ambitions you will help each other achieve them. Also you will understand how not to be an obstacle for your partner. If you do they recent you.

7.BILLS
How do you pay your bills? Who pays what? How do you grow and save for a common goal?

8. FRIENDS
Some partners feel one is spending too much time with them. Plan to agree on times to see them that doesn't interfere with family time. Also  there will be friends who are of bad influence.

9. HOBBIES
Marriage doesn't mean stopping to do the things they love. If one loves football and another soaps find a way that doesn't prevent one from enjoying their hobby. support each other and try to understand why your partner loves something.

10. VACATIONS
Come on you need to get time off just to enjoy each other's company.

Always remember communication is the key to building a proper relationship. NBM never solves anything. Only creates room for the devil to converse in your marriage.