File to one level.

Over the weekend i had lots of cleaning to do my back hurts till now. I still wonder how i would perform if i was to go to the garden all day. The only thing i can say in all this is that everything takes getting used to. Perhaps more frequent cleaning would resolve having aches all over. Let me state that when I do the cleaning myself I feel really satisfied with the standards which is never the case when another person does it. Oh well like i said it will take some getting used to.

So anyway during cleaning my nails chirp and some end up longer than others. I find them looking untidy and so I have to manicure them a process which involves filing to bring them to the same level. Once done i am filled with admiration and feel proud of myself.The growth of the nails is uniform and i am able to maintain tidy nails.

Applying this to real life. I thought about the various situation that present themselves in life. More so in relationships. At some point a spouse may find themselves at a higher level than their partner. During such situations its important that those involved figure out how to get to a level ground. That way like my nails they are able to grow together. Situations will call for the two sitting and looking what is more practical moving down to get to the level of the one who is lower or growing the one who is down to get them to the level of the one who is up. Let me give you an example.

If two people are in an argument and one is shouting at the top of their voice. The only way to come to a level they can move together is to lower the one who is shouting.Only then can they have a decent conversation. Say two one partner is feeling low and down the only right thing to do is to see how best the happy one can lift the spirits of the one who is low. That way there is a lot of calm in the house and planning of things becomes easier.

So yes situations will call for filing down to enable growth together and neatly. And at times it will take getting down to the level one partner is to raise them up so that you can move together.

Hope it makes sense to you.